Anything can be a collar, so true. We do not advertise our relationship with a collar and a big ring to it, or a collar with a BDSM logo on it. A collar is a very personal item that can be anything really around your neck. It’s such a nice thought that no-one can see it, but you both know what it means. It’s such a nice idea that the collar around your neck is binding as a dog collar would. And it’s even more nice when the collar is hand made by your sub, or has a personal meaning.
I guess I am such a romantic that I think the more personal the more home made the collar is, the more meaning it has to me.
Do not understand me wrong, a dog collar or any other explicit collar can look wonderful within the safety an and security of your home, but it’s not an advertisement. At least that is how I think about it.